i know u posted a while ago, but when i do not want to care about what others i think, i think about how i feel
like if u are worried about what someone is thinking about what u r wearing, think about how BEAUTIFUL and MAGICKAL the clothes make u feel while wearing it, when u focus on the goodness u feel it just manifests
when ur thoughts start to wander to the worries of what others may or may not be thinking just say “this thing brings me joy and all that matters!!!” like a ritual just say it over and over ! u can replace the given situation with anything